#9 Silent for good

Well there has been statement "Silent is gold."
But here, I mean it because this is important. Well as we know that there are many people who talks bullshit or just do the talk without any work. Well that example is also one of lots beneath this topic.
What I learnt today is silent in everyday conversations. I need to know there is time that is better for me to shut my mouth, or it is just the time.
I was talking about stuffs and people, and everything went just as usual, until my friend said that she didn't like what I said then. It was just about simple things, and I didn't mean anything nor expect her to give me that kind of feedback, cause i don't really mean a thing.
By the show on her face I can simply have this conclusion: She really hate it and she meant it that I shouldn't repeat what I did.
At that moment I thought of this: There are so many people who treat me or do the thing like I did, but for me it's fine because I understand the circumtances. But as we know that no human being has the exact personality, and that is why I need to filter the words before I speak.
I am really thankful that I have a friend who can push me to write my previous post, because that helps me to deal with this.

#8 Time to stop

I was just walking with my friend, chit chat lot of things, then come out this topic.

"You know sometimes I think people just don't know when is the time to stop"
"You mean?"
"Well for example for a couple who's with each other for years but then they know they had enough, but still want to go on because it is a waste."

Yes I know a lot of people like that. A waste that they already together for 3 or 4 years then split up? But I think it's more waste of time if they continue until like 7 or 10 years but then know they have to.

This also happen in work. I don't have a lot of experience yet, but so many said "I'm so tired, had enough." but then apply again for the job.

Well ofcourse it's not as simple as saying it, there are ofcourse a lot of consideration, no matter what it is. But for me is though it's hard, but If I won't get any benefit or feedback that worth enough to fight for why should I continue?